Thursday, September 22, 2016

When A Man Is Tired Of London, He Is Tired Of Life

Here I am, on the precipice of one of life’s great adventures.  I think about the differences between this trip and the previous one, a study abroad experience in 2010, and although it seems like only six years have passed, in reality so much has changed.  I’m about to join my fiancĂ© to work in London for three months – a city where we met while studying abroad in 2010.  That semester abroad brought me so many happy memories, lifelong friendships, and most importantly, my future husband!

Six years ago, I didn’t have a texting plan and I used a blocky slide phone; no one I knew had a smartphone.  Now, I’m charging my iPhone at an airport bar and every single person here is staring at a glowing laptop or mobile phone screen.  I was a college student, living on a very tight budget that semester.  Now, I am a real adult in the working world.  I had barely been away from home, having commuted to NYU.  Since then, I’ve traveled – not too extensively, but enough to have broadened my horizons and to have witnessed the beauty of parts of the world – and moved out of the comfort of home.  I hope I’ve grown into a more level-headed, well-rounded person in the last six years, and I hope London will welcome us back with open arms.

As we were driving to JFK this evening, we were greeted by one of the most stunning sunsets; the sky was first wispy with cotton candy-like pink clouds, then turned fiery and orange red.  I like to think New York wanted to show us a nice last view.

Enough ruminating!

I’m very proud of Alex for all he’s accomplished in his brief career so far, so much so that his company is basically funding this entire stint abroad.  Alex arrived in London in 2010 as an NYU Stern student studying accounting and he wound up in a Big Four firm after graduation.  (Very different story from me, who arrived in NYU London thinking I’d be deep in medical school now.)

We will be staying in an apartment/studio/hotel kind of set up in The City of London, like the OG square mile city of Londoninium.  I’ve been telling people we’re between St. Paul’s Cathedral and The Monument (as in, the monument commemorating the 1666 Great Fire).  The apartment is just over the river from the Borough Market/Southwark scene.

While Alex goes off to work every day in Canary Wharf, I’ll be making myself nice and cozy and working in the apartment.  I am so blessed and grateful to my company for allowing me to work remotely for such a long time.  (Wouldn’t have this opportunity if I were in med school!)  I’ll be working East Coast hours, so I have to get used to something like a 2pm to 11pm schedule…that’ll probably be a little rough at first since I’m not a night person.  Come to think of it, I’m also not a morning person, and I don’t like the afternoon slump, so…what kind of a person am I???  I’m going to push myself to go out and exercise and run errands in the morning, and just get to unwind and enjoy the bustling life surrounding me.

The Move

Packing for this trip was extra hard.  I had just moved in with Alex this past July, but he had been in that same apartment for four years, and had accumulated a lot of…things.  When we come back from London, the goal is to move into Manhattan shortly after, so we also had to move all our things out of the apartment, on top of packing for London.  Let me tell you, I never want to relive those last few days of sweaty schlepping and running up and down stars.  When we move into our next place, I’ll hire movers.

Another big change was that when we studied abroad, for the most part we were able to check two pieces of baggage for free.  I didn’t even pack that many items with me, basically the minimum for living, but I did have a second bag to check, for which I just had to fork over $100.  The business of air travel is a racket.

The Next 103 Days

Yeah, we already calculated the number of days until we have to come home, but this is the case where the countdown is wistful, something that I'm not terribly looking forward to.  I remember the elation when my countdown to departure hit 0 days...imagine my sadness come January 3, 2017.

Before I get too sad thinking about the end, though, I really should just live the next 3 months to the fullest - visit new places, revisit old haunts, meet some new people, find old friends still in London, eat great food, travel around Europe as much as we can....  It's going to be a good 103 days.

Well, peace out America, it's been real.



Sunday, May 30, 2010

Things I Miss About London

- British people
- British accents
- sweet Thai chilli crisps
- Tesco
- Waitrose
- onion and garlic dip
- 6 Bedford Square
- Dr. David Urch
- Dr. Tomas Chamorro-Premuzic
- NIDO bathroom mirror
- Room 3.85
- fish and chips
- eat-in Earl Grey at Costa
- Humaira Tandoori
- naan
- samosas
- chicken tikka masala
- Muller Corners yoghurt
- the Underground
- double decker buses
- Brunswick Center
- British currency
- being overage
- Pizza Express
- hot waiter at Pizza Express, Euston Road
- the British Library
- the British Museum
- Primark
- Harrod's
- saying "Cheers"
- the Gherkin
- Greenwich
- Royal Festival Hall
- Westminster
- red telephone booths
- sunset from 12.30
- photo wall
- Burlington Arcade
- Oyster Card
- tapping in
- cooking
- potlucks
- my roommate
- Twinings collection
- Trafalgar Square
- London markets
- afternoon tea
- Victoria & Albert Museum
- Notting Hill/Portobello Road Market
- Le Mercury
- Chilango
- Tortilla
- instant oatmeal
- texting
- hair dryer
- Boots
- taramasalata
- cream crackers
- Nivea products
- Q Chicken
- SHINE kids
- electric kettle
- microwave dinners
- pita bread
- caramelized onion hoummus
- Moroccan hoummus
- driving on the wrong side of the road
- walking on the wrong side of hallways/stairs
- standing on the right of escalators
- minding the gap
- ground floors
- bold and mighty architecture
- NIDO showerhead
- NYU in London organic chemistry exams
- Georgian architecture
- Senate House
- freedom
- independence

Wednesday, May 19, 2010

Hello Goodbye

Well, I'm home.  It's like...waking up from a really, really, really, REALLY good dream.

It's great to see my family again and be in my own home again; to have a bathroom in which I can actually stretch my arms and not bruise myself; to have a regular-sized refrigerator and not a cold locker; to have my piano; to sleep in my own bed...

...but I miss so much about London and what my life was like there!  I miss my London family, the free museums, 6 Bedford Square, Room Awesome, Tesco/Waitrose...  I want to walk to campus again.  I want to buy £1 microwave meals and crisps at Tesco.  I want to get lost in The British Museum or National Gallery.  I want to stay out really late and lose my voice screaming the lyrics to "Don't Stop Believing" at The Rocket.  I want Indian food!

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It's related, I promise: yesterday, I caught up on the final episodes of Ugly Betty.

I didn't think I could be so affected by, my life so invested in, a television show.  I remember the first few episodes years back, there was all this uproar about a show with an ugly girl as the protagonist: people thought it was groundbreaking, people thought it was stereotyping.  Whatever, I watched all four seasons dutifully.  These last few episodes got me thinking how much the life of Betty Suarez mirrors the life of Sandra Moy.  

It's eerie, in fact, how similar we are.  Betty gets her braces off (check), Betty writes a blog (check), Betty loses some weight (check), Betty meets boys (well...I need to work on that), Betty goes to London (CHECK), Betty blogs about London (check and check, obviously).

I cried when Betty leaves her life and her job in New York to move to bigger, better things in London.  When she says goodbye to her family...that scene got me.  That was what I was like, leaving home earlier this year.  Honestly, when I was watching that episode, it was like looking back into my own life.  Then, I rejoiced when she was frolicking around London with her new successful career, and I still can't believe they made Trafalgar Square such an integral part of her life.  Seriously, Silvio Horta, way to jack my story!!  Just kidding, I really enjoyed every minute of it.

One day, one day.  When I am a successful cardiologist (or something), I will move to London and do a Betty Suarez.

Friday, May 14, 2010

Le Ciel Bleu

Good morning from London, from my last full day in London!!

This week flew by so fast, unfairly so.  I mean it's great to be done with finals and classes.  BUT I MISS LONDON ALREADY.  I'm dreading leaving, and I don't know what I'm going to do with myself...

Last night we had dinner at Le Mercury again.  It was a beautiful scene to behold, all my friends sitting around a table, candlelights and romantic French music, laughter, delicious food...

And afterwards, I joined the NYU Global Medical Brigades fundraiser at The Rocket, a nearby pub.  Yes, that was rather fun.  It was a good time to let loose and see all my friends (and me, most likely) act like idiots.

Oh what an amazing four months it has been.

Today is the bye-bye barbecue in Bedford Square.  I wonder what British BBQ tastes like...?

Saturday, May 8, 2010

Seven. More. Days

Oh, no.  The dreaded time has come.  We're nearing the end of Spring 2010!

I've been in denial ever since we passed the half-way point of this semester.  Let's face it, I'm not ready to go home yet!  I've had a super-productive semester - lived by myself, gone all around Europe, and still managed to do well in school - but I am greedy for more.

This coming week, I have an orgo final, cognition final, and social psychology final, and then I'm done.  This past week was absolutely awful: cognition paper, architecture term project, and social psychology group project.  I think two out of those three went alright.  I spent the entire day doing orgo today and I'm quite ready to burst.  Plus, I have another entire day to look forward to carboxyl groups and amides and whatnot.  FUN!

Seven more days and I'll be home, but London will always have a special place in my heart, as will all the people I've met here and the experiences I've had.  <3

Saturday, May 1, 2010

I'm just a girl / Standing in front of a boy / Asking that boy to love her

Today I went to Notting Hill!  Yes, like the movie.

I feared it would rain today, but the weather was fantastic while we were there.  It is pouring right now, though.  We took the Tube out to Notting Hill Gate and walked around the extremely crowded Portobello Road Market.  There are lots of antique/junk shops and fruits and veggies and things you'd expect of a market.  We had lunch at a greasy spoon diner and then smoothies and just meandered around the neighborhood.

Notting Hill is really beautiful.  The houses come in two flavors, Italianate or...regular row houses.  The Italianate houses are based on palazzos in Italia.  The row houses are all uniquely painted and colourful!  I adored the architecture even more than the market itself.  Here, have a taste:


And yes, I visited the Travel Bookshop, but it wasn't exactly like Hugh Grant's.  It was really nice, though, and I flipped through some nice travel books with fantastic photos.

Cheeeerio!

Tuesday, April 27, 2010

I Survived Volcano 2010

Yeah...the whole volcano business was funny until we got our makeup class for the last day of classes, 6:30 - 9:30 pm.  See, what had happened was...my professor got stuck in Spain, so he missed class, so now we have to sacrifice three hours that night to learn about cognitive psychology.  Oh, just the thought of it pains me.

What a busy, busy few weeks ahead!  Orgo Lab final next Tuesday; Cognition paper and Architecture paper due on the same day, next Wednesday; Social presentation next Thursday; Orgo final next next Monday; Orgo written assignment next next Tuesday; Cognition final next next Wednesday; Social final next next Thursday; NYUL FAREWELL BARBECUE NEXT NEXT FRIDAY.